Thursday, November 28, 2013

The Considerable Setbacks Thanksgiving Special (Or: 6 Things for Which I'm Thankful)

I know I'm a little late for this, but I got tagged in one of those little number game posts on Facebook (the kind where you list facts about yourself), so I've decided to finally participate through this blog post. I got the number six. However, simply listing interesting facts is far too mainstream, I say over the sound of a Black Keys record and PBR swirling in the can. Instead, I'm putting a little holiday spin on this game by writing down six things I'm thankful for this year, in no particular order.

"I liked stuffing back when it was called 'dressing'."

Six Things for Which I'm Thankful (notice how I didn't end that with a preposition? NOTICE IT!):

1. My new pixie haircut. Back in August, I finally took the plunge and got a good chunk of my hair whacked off (enough to fill two buckets, actually). For the first time in my life, I have a look that really feels like "me." And now Jennifer Lawrence and Kristin Chenoweth are copying me, because they wanna be cool too. 
2. The fact that I've really grown a pair this year--as much as a lady can, anyway. I can drive a car decently without feeling like Death is giving me a wedgie every time I leave the driveway. I took a huge risk by accepting a production assistant job in Raleigh on a show for the DIY network; this involved putting my minimum wage job on the line, getting up at 4 a.m. for the long drive to Raleigh, braving the storm of Bon Jovi concert traffic on my steel horse, and working for two twelve-hour days on four hours of sleep as the only female on set. While on my period. Basically, I wanted something, and instead of giving up and letting it go, I stood up and ran it down.
3. Speaking of jobs, next week I will no longer be a lowly deli associate, but an associate producer for an Emmy-winning TV series. I'm especially grateful for this job because it came from a situation that I thought was bad at first, but turned out to be good. Last summer, I wanted to do an internship in film or television, but it had to be within commuting distance since I couldn't afford a car or an apartment, and I also couldn't afford to pay summer tuition, which many internships require (you pay to work instead of getting paid. I know, it's screwed up). Because of this, UNC-TV's internship was literally the only one I could do. Not only did they let me work for them, but they also introduced me to David Hardy, co-producer of Our State and my new boss, whose faith in my abilities has given me more confidence as a media professional than I've had in a long time. I'm also grateful to Morgan Potts, my other new producer-boss, for also trusting me enough with their beautiful program to hire me.
4. Parents who use words like "fortuitous" in everyday conversation. Seriously though, they're the ones who read to me as a kid and insisted on talking to me as if I were an adult, and I don't think I'd be as good a writer without them.
5. I know I say this every year, but, my friends. Every time I write one of these little tributes I sound like a drunk person (I love you guys...just...so much...you are the BEST *laughs and sloshes wine on someone's shirt*). But really, you guys are the best. Everywhere I ramble, I seem to have the good fortune of always befriending the most interesting, intelligent, hilarious, and nicest people around.
6. Anybody who does nice things for people. I love seeing even small justices done in a world full of injustice. Also, in a world of lies and ulterior motives, I'm grateful for anyone who does these things with honesty and genuine kindness. Really, any kind of self-sacrifice is something to be thankful for. 

Monday, October 28, 2013

The Auditory Pizza: A Musing on Music

If you think of the human lifespan, or even just thought, as a chain of experiences, it seems like modern society is bent on breaking this chain into smaller and smaller isolated links. Everything is so fragmented. It's hard to lose yourself in the world of a good TV show when, every 5 minutes, a commercial reminds you that if you drive a Toyota Corolla, crowds of people in color-coordinated suits will dance to terrible electro-pop wherever you go (sometimes you just have to marvel at the sheer ridiculousness of everyday things). Even as I write, I feel like my attention span has been pulled into tiny pieces, tumbling off in all different directions. There's always something keeping my eyes from the screen, my thoughts from the words, and my hands from the keyboard.  

Sorry for the terrible image quality. I still can't use my scanner, so this is an iPod photo. Thanks Obama.


Sometimes I think this fragmented culture keeps us from fully appreciating musical albums as complete works. I love iTunes when I want to download a couple hit songs from an album that doesn't interest me otherwise. For instance, I'm not a big Macklemore fan, but you bet I was whistling "Thrift Shop" when I found that dapper velvet vest for 3 bucks on the second hand rack. However, I wonder if this form of buying music discourages people from listening to entire albums from beginning to end, as they're often meant to be enjoyed.

I thought about this while driving home from work one night. I listened to the entire Demon Days album by Gorillaz, and it had been a long time since I'd listened to the whole thing in one go. Most of the time, the individual songs just pop up here and there while my iPod is in shuffle mode, kinda like random memories that flash in your mind when you least expect them (like when you have a glass of milk and remember the time you ate a blade of grass when you were seven because you wanted to see what it felt like to be a cow). Anyway, after I got home, I felt like I'd experienced each song on Demon Days in a different way from before, as parts of a complete work of art, and the effect was beautiful and eye-opening. It was like eating the whole pizza, instead of just an olive or a bacon bit. It makes you think about why the tracks were arranged the way they were, and allows you to appreciate the way one song blends into another. Plus, it helped that it was a Demon Days kind of night: the air was cool, and the black sky was overcast, but the clouds were just thin enough so that you could barely see the moon's ghostly figure.

Another thing I realized that night is the importance of listening to an album through a real stereo system rather than earbuds. It's another example of experiences getting smaller and more isolated. Listening through tiny headphones is nothing compared to hearing a song spill into the atmosphere from a good set of speakers. This way, it doesn't just go into your ears; it fills the space around you.

ONE MORE THING (in the words of Uncle): as great as the iTunes preview feature is, it also takes away some of the suspense and excitement of buying and album you've never heard at all before. The other day, I was at Barnes and Noble, and I came across a CD of Nina Simone love songs. I was already somewhat familiar with Nina Simone (who doesn't love I Put a Spell on You?), but I'd never heard any of these covers before. I knew it had to be at least a pretty good album, but I still felt the excitement of taking a leap of faith and buying an album I'd hadn't previewed (maybe "pre-listened" is a better term). Fortunately, it turned out to be incredible--the actual title is Nina Simone for Lovers if you wanna pick it up yourself. It's also more of an event, buying a CD or record. You make a special trip to the record store or mailbox with a pleasant anticipation, rather than the instant gratification of downloading something.

I'm gonna wrap this post up and drag up the energy to write some more things, but I recommend going out and getting an album that looks good, but that you've never heard before. It can be pretty fun.      

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Google Poetics: Japanese Style

The little blobs of weirdness scattered about the Internet amaze me. The other day, I was looking for a certain online magazine, but accidentally typed in the wrong URL. Instead, I wound up on a Japanese web page that appeared to be an advertisement for some sort of hair removal treatment. I figured this out after using Google Translate on the whole page, which produced something that read sometimes like a lost Yoko Ono song, others like the time your random freshman year roommate came home from a party to which you weren't invited and, while still in a Jagerbomb haze, decided it would be a smashing time to try his hand at erotic slam poetry before vomiting on your carpet. The following is a compilation of some of the most oddly poetic and downright strange lines of this translation:


The sea is only reputation and surprise answer to wealth.
Generation of summer delivery.
Assent to heat and diet.
Only fashionable circle and eye line
even in the human and the world
The whitening of wear and judgment of the famous weapon
Inevitability!
think the athletic manly whitening cream
a pack of pants just published
mono awkward scheduled safety.
The obsession in permanent razor from the battery in the bikini
Even idol carefully selected.
popular restaurant in pain
how about a diet oxygen from pubic hair
athletic manly yen cream white beauty I care.

Ladies, get your man what he really wants for Christmas this year: athletic manly yen cream. And while you're at it, treat yourself to a battery-powered bikini (not for use in water).

Sunday, September 29, 2013

Life Outside the School Calendar

Humans are unique animals in many ways. We buy blue things for boys and pink things for girls.We stare at boxes shooting light at us (my dog still doesn't understand this. Why would we watch TV when we could be playing with him?). We text (one of the perks of opposable thumbs). We also go to school. In fact, we let school mess with the innermost gears of our mental clocks. Anyone who's experienced June elation or September blues can attest to this. Summer always begins somewhere around June 20th, but as soon as that last school bell rings, guess what? It's summer. Insisting that it's not might earn you a playground beating. Also, what about that beautiful period from mid-August to mid-September, when the air is crisp but not chilly? Never mind the fact that everything is still pretty green and your neighborhood pool is still open. It's fall, which means homework and schedules and people telling you how to spend your time again. Just hearing those things probably makes your soul ache.



One of the most interesting things I've faced since graduating college is learning how to "live with the seasons" again. For a lot of people, fall began August 25th, but for me, it began September 22nd at 4:44 p.m. with the equinox. My whole outlook on seasonal changes has pretty much gone from this:

You know it's fall when:

  • Stores run back-to-school commercials with creepily stylish/excited children.
  • You wonder if you can get one more year out of your beat-up notebook with The Who logo on it. 
  • Your procrastination on that summer reading list catches up with you. Now you have to go on a 3-day Puritan binge with The Crucible and The Scarlet Letter.
  • You feel guilty for not finishing your summer bucket list. Reading Anna Karenina and building the Taj Mahal out of index cards will have to wait until next summer. 

To this:

You know it's fall when:

  • Not having air conditioning doesn't make you felonious anymore.
  • Breathing feels like taking a cool drink (for an idea of North Carolina summers, imagine a hot, wet towel being thrown at your face every time you walk outside).
  • You don't have to give your dog medicated heat rash baths anymore (I'll miss having him smell like oatmeal conditioner though).
  • The moon is brighter.
  • You smell the pumpkin cookies you bought and the smoke from other people's fires as you drive home from the store.
  • Halloween Oreos (this is by far my favorite).
However, it still pains me a little to see summer go, even though it makes no difference in my work schedule whatsoever. I know people who graduated years ago and still get sad when late August roles around. For as much educating as it claims to do, school really screws with your psyche as well. Let's not let it ruin this lovely time of year completely.

Friday, August 30, 2013

The Human Beings Movement

It might be for the best that this post is so late, because there probably isn't a better time to publish it. Yesterday marked the 50th anniversary of Martin Luther King Jr,'s "I Have a Dream" speech during the 1963 March on Washington (the full text is available here. Everyone should read those beautiful words, especially now). In some ways, this post relates to Dr. King's message of equality.

I really don't need to say this, but: there's a lot of awful stuff in the world right now, and a lot of it is humanity's own fault. Violence, hatred, oppression, denial; these are not forces of nature. They don't have to exist, though sadly, they may never completely disappear. However, there is a very simple way to ease the pain we often inflict on each other: just treat each other like human beings.

That's all there is to it. Just recognize that other people are people too. Acknowledge their humanity. I think that's really the sentiment at the heart of the "golden rule," do unto others as you would have them do unto you (a variation of which is found in many religious texts). Throughout history, tyrannical powers have tried to justify their oppression by pretending that those they oppress aren't people, that they're subhuman. It's happened in our own country, through slavery and discrimination. Racism is one example, but there are others, some involving gender. For instance, some people believe it's okay to treat women a certain way because they're "women," as if that somehow means "not a person." Instead, if you're not sure how to act toward a lady, just ask yourself: would I want to be whistled at every time I walked down a street? Would I want to be harassed or assaulted? If no, then don't do that. If yes, well...you should get that looked at.

I know this seems like a pretty elementary lesson in decency, but I think most of us can agree that we all need a refresher course on the golden rule (myself included). There's also another step in acknowledging someone's person-hood: recognize their complexity. Everyone's complicated, so much that it's impossible to lump people into broad, two-dimensional categories without robbing them of some of their humanity. You can't assume that one person in a certain group has exactly the same preferences and experiences as another member of the group, or else you turn them into a concept rather than a human. Not all home-schooled kids have fundamentalist parents. "Born This Way" is not every gay person's favorite song. And not all people who eat quinoa are smug hipsters (though I have to admit, the word "quinoa" sounds pretty smug. Say it a few times like a smart-alec little kid and you'll see what I mean). 

Again, I think most people reading this understand these points, but it never hurts to remind ourselves of the most basic form of being nice (I definitely need that sometimes). I've been having scanner problems this week, so I don't have a cartoon, but I'll leave you with a quote from a cartoon character. Plankton once told Spongebob, "Only aggressive people conquer the world!" Then Spongebob posed the question, "What about aggressively nice people?" Also, here's another cute picture of my dog:

He took my spot.
          

Sunday, July 28, 2013

A Nation of Doers, Part 2: Doers in Action

Hello Internet friends,

Last week I hopped on my virtual soapbox and preached about how we should get off our butts and do something about our problems and those of the world around us. This week, I'm getting on that soapbox again to showcase some people who, through their actions, definitely fit this blog's definition of "doer."

Our first doer of the week is Moses Mathis, a man from Fayetteville, North Carolina affectionately known as the "Bicycle Man." Sadly, he passed away July 15th, but the local news station did a moving story on the celebration of his life: http://www.wncn.com/story/22905049/life-of-fayettevilles-bicycle-man-celebrated-at-funeral . Mathis was known for repairing bicycles and giving them to children in need at Christmas. For free. And we're not talking just a few kids either (though that in itself would be heartwarming). Thanks to his program, over 26,000 kids have gotten bikes. Twenty-six thousand. According to the news story, he also organized a community watch and youth outreach programs.

The best part of the story, though, involves the words of Rev. Frederick Hendley during the eulogy at Mathis' life celebration: "...when it's all said and done, for many people there's more said than done, but Moses Mathis had done a lot of good work." I can't think of a better way to have your life remembered.

Okay, so this second "doer profile" is pretty much shameless promotion of a friend's work, but I don't care cuz I do what I want *shakes fist*! Our second doer of the week is one of my Wilmington pals, Chris Vickery: writer, composer, filmmaker, real-life Guitar Hero.

Some people say Chris is nuts. Well, he is, but in the best possible way. When Chris wants to do something, he just does it, no matter how crazy or insurmountable it seems. Wants to make cartoons: teaches self to animate. Wants to write screenplays: plows through five thick screenwriting books and writes a feature-length script in one summer. One day, after spending hours on one page of a story I was writing, I chatted with Chris, and he was all like, "yeah, I just wrote a children's book, and now I'm illustrating it."

He really does own a kilt.

So obviously, I wasn't surprised when Chris called me a few weeks ago and said "hey, I'm home for the weekend, so Imma record me an album" (he talks way more sophisticated in real life). Here is that album, a psychedelic rock 'n roll sound sundae titled "Three Days," entirely produced by Chris Vickery in, you guessed it, three days: https://soundcloud.com/chris-vickery/sets/three-days . Treat yourself to a listen, and if you know of any friends, radio stations, reviewers, or magazines who might enjoy it, send it along to them as well. For more of Chris's music (including a downloadable version of Three Days), visit http://chrisvickerymusic.bandcamp.com/ .

It even has artwork!

 So ends another weekly ramble-fest. The moral of it all: go forth, and do awesomeness in the world.


 

Monday, July 22, 2013

A Nation of Doers

They say to never start anything on the Internet with an apology, but I'm gonna do it anyway because fight the power. Life's been hard these past few weeks. I have a fast-approaching deadline for a writing competition, and I've been scouring every crevice between the couch cushions of the Internet for a job that could actually help pay off my school debt. And yesterday, while chewing a piece of meat, my sideways wisdom tooth (yes, sideways) made me feel like Bruce Willis kicked me in the mouth (to which Harris Teeter says NEIN! No dental insurance for you!). So, long story short, sorry for not posting more lately.

This was going to be my big 4th of July "what-does-it-mean-to-be-American" post, but I'll give it to you now. Sadly, this has become a common perception of Americans in general:

Couch potatoes.


But if you define "American" in terms of what this country was built on, the opposite is true. Being American means cleaning deli counters and stepping on rotten meat and cheese because you have a dream, and that dream needs money. It means that when you don't like the way things are, you DO something about it, no matter how painful. Our nation's founders were tired of getting kicked around, so they started a revolution. And for those of us with immigrant ancestors, we know that when they realized America was the place for them, they didn't just sit at home, watch Netflix, and make sarcastic comments about how their home country sucked and they should totally move someday. Instead, they came to America and started over. Simply put, America has been a nation of "doers" in the past, and now we need to step up and keep it that way. If you want something, go for it. If you see a problem, help fix it. As Gandhi said, "Be the change you wish to see in the world" (and no, it's not enough to wear that quote on a t-shirt).

I overheard an elderly woman at my neighborhood pool last week, talking to the college-age pool attendant. Basically, she said she believed her (the girl's) generation had the tenacity and resourcefulness to make the world a better place. To my fellow twenty-somethings: let's prove her right.        

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Throwback: How to Become a Monster

I don't usually hang onto old things. In fact, I get kind of a buzz from deleting things or throwing them away. When I go through my closet and bag up old clothes for Goodwill, I have to make sure I tie the bags shut immediately, or else my mom will go through them and put clothes back in my closet when I'm not around (she says I get rid of things prematurely, and sometimes she's right. Now I only have one pair of Wal-Mart khakis to spill turkey juice on at work).

Anyway, despite my tendency to throw things away, I saved one post from my old blog before I deleted the whole thing. I've re-posted it below, an illustration of what can happen when you try to give everyone your time at once. Also, speaking of throwbacks (and monsters), here's a notebook doodle from 12th grade:

We were talking about Watergate in AP US History, so I tried to draw Richard Nixon.
Then I drew a Tyrannosaurus Rex.

Anyway, here's my post from last fall, "How to Become a Monster":

The secret is to spread yourself thin. Really thin. Like the last blob of peanut butter, scraped from the sides of the jar and spread on the last crust of bread in your kitchen because grocery shopping, despite man's considerable need for food, is not a high priority in your weekly schedule. This will remove the buffer of tolerance, patience, and empathy between you and your fellow humans, because these things will be sprinkled over so many commitments that when the day comes where someone pushes just one of your buttons, you will react like a kicked rattlesnake. Even when a friend tiptoes into your dark, smoky dragon-cave, and innocently asks for that last spare minute you keep tucked in the coil of your scaly tail, you will expectorate fire at their face and burn any bridges of kindness or mutual understanding between your two souls. If you've achieved these results, congratulations. You've become a monster. If you're unhappy with this transformation, good luck. You could try sticking a knife in the peanut butter jar of your heart, scraping out any bits of tolerance, patience, or empathy still stuck to its walls, and using it to glue Popsicle sticks together for a replacement bridge between you and the person whose face you just incinerated (hopefully they've a jar or two of forgiveness in the cupboard of their soul). But it’s so much easier being a monster.

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Writing as a Life Line

Lately I've been thinking about art, especially writing, as a life preserver--tossed out to save the individual from drowning in the sea of generality. I recently heard a famous author (pretty sure it was Clyde Edgerton) basically say that one of the great things about writing is that it allows you to focus on an individual person's experience, and that this was especially refreshing in today's generalized world. Ever since, my mind's frequently wandered to this idea in the shower.

If you can call 21st century culture "generalized," it might be because of what Neil Postman called "information glut" (if you haven't read Amusing Ourselves to Death, I'll weep bitter tears until you do). Rather than getting fully invested in only one or two stories at a time, we get bombarded with bits and pieces of thousands of stories every day. Instead of a long letter from a close friend or family member, we see hundreds of short "tweets" or "statuses," often from people we barely know or don't know at all. As a result, we tend to just skim the surfaces of human experience, seeing only the short blips of information people make public on the Internet, and these blips often follow mass trends, such as the most popular hash tags on Twitter.

Sometimes it feels like a similar thing is happening to Hollywood movies. It's not enough to explore the struggles of one or two people; the rest of humanity has to get involved (example: you can't just have a child battling an illness--it's gotta turn into a global pandemic). That's why I love films like Life of Pi. On one hand, it's a grand, visual spectacle, but it's also an intensely personal, intimate journey of a boy and his tiger.

That's enough, inner film nerd...anyway, I don't wanna pick on technology too much. As Postman also explains, new media both "giveth" and "taketh away." The Internet may overload us with useless information, but it's also the world's biggest library of useful information. And social media allows people to organize, share stories, and solve problems on a mind-blowing scale (when they're not posting cat memes, of course). But a constant flow of stimuli and distractions can also make a person lose touch with the smaller, deeper, more internal experiences of life, and forget the subtle differences that make each of us unique. This is why writing is more important than ever. Through their work, writers can cut straight through the mass culture and focus on the thoughts, feelings, and sensations of one specific person.

By now you're probably thinking, "okay Laura, let's get to the cartoons," and I don't blame you. So I'm gonna get off my soap box for a minute and offer a visual aid:

On the left, we have all of humanity. On the right, we have a guy named Mike. Mike is somewhere in that big blob o' people on the left, but it's hard to really see him unless he's magnified. Writing could be that magnifying glass. If you wrote a story about Mike, you could delve as deep into his character as you wanted.  Maybe you could explain why he wears that t-shirt with a bird on it, and why that bird looks like a marijuana leaf (my poor drawing skills are not an acceptable answer). If Mike were a real person and you wanted to write a compelling article about him, you'd have to really get to know him instead of just looking at him or sifting through his Instagram photos. Basically, the point I've been trying to make through all this babbling is:

Writing helps you see below the surface. It lets you discover hidden truths about life and people.

In fact, art in general does the same thing. In the words of Marcel Marceau, "Only through art can we emerge from ourselves and know what another person sees."

On a related note, I recently read Ernest Hemingway's The Old Man and the Sea. Talk about an intimate story. In a huge body of water, on a planet with billions of people, there's just one man versus a fish. No one else is involved in his battle to catch it, and that makes it all the more powerful. It isn't a blockbuster about humanity's war against giant blue marlin, nor does the old man have a smart phone to tweet about his adventure ("Finally hooked that giant marlin. Gonna need a bigger boat lol. #gonefishin #awesome").

Since this was a really text-heavy post, I'm gonna leave you tonight with a sketch of a couple characters I created a while back. They're named Kimmy and Kristin, ages 11 and 16, respectively, and hopefully they'll star in their own series someday.


Saturday, June 8, 2013

Potato Salad and Human Nature

I once heard someone say that human beings are inherently optimistic. It's an interesting thought, considering that humans also find new things to complain about constantly. Actually, I can't say that this is true of humans in general, but it seems to be an all-too-common trait of American culture these days. In fact, sometimes it seems like how well-off someone is is directly proportional to how much they complain.

For example, a couple weeks ago, I'm standing in line at this fancy-pants deli (the kind with imported water in its drink coolers) in an upscale neighborhood, when this woman walks up to the counter to get the potato salad she ordered. She then gives the guy working the counter a ten-minute speech about the absence of celery in the potato salad and how potato salad really should have celery in it.

Another example: I met this girl in college last year who was planning her wedding. She constantly complained about how stressful it was and how it was driving her crazy. I complain all the time about stupid stuff myself, but still...it was all I could do to keep from grabbing her by the shoulders, staring her dead in the face, and saying: "Look. You're 21 years old, and you've already found the person you want to bleed, sweat, and cry with for the rest of your life (supposedly). People have fought for that kind of love throughout mankind's existence, throughout art and literature, and now you've got it. If you're seriously gonna throw a fit over flowers or invitations, you need to rethink the reason for this wedding."

Sorry, that got really preachy really fast (I was watching this wedding show with my mom and got mad because the brides were annoying). Anyway, another ironic quirk of supposedly optimistic humans is how we tend to settle comfortably into being miserable. In fact, even David Wong of Cracked.com agrees that misery is comfortable (for more, read his Cracked article "Six Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person). The way I see it, misery is kinda like this old arm chair I once saw next to a beach house that probably belonged to a bunch of frat boys. On its cushion rested a cardboard sign that said "FREE."


It stinks. It's got holes. It's stained with beer and potato chip grease. Who knows what unholy organisms lurk within its stitching? But you know what? It's darn comfy. It's still got big soft cushions for your back and butt.  Once you sit in it, you sink until you feel like you'll never get out of it. Misery is quite similar. You don't usually have to do very much to be unhappy, and that makes it comfortable (and free), in a way. On the other hand, as the opening title of The Thief of Bagdad (1924) states, "Happiness must be earned." There's a reason they call it the "pursuit" of happiness. Being truly happy often requires doing lots of stuff (much of which I haven't done yet), and even enduring some misery in the process. However, this is misery in motion. It's not the dull, stagnant kind of pain. It's the pain that comes with trying to do epic things. Like the feeling of being thrown through a window after you karate chop a ninja warlord (and make the glass shatter in cool slow motion). I really wish I could say I've done that.

If you're reading this, thanks for listening to me think out loud, as usual. Now get out of that frat boy chair and go karate chop a ninja warlord, if it makes you happy.
  

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Face to Face

For starters, life got in the way of my doodling this week, so I apologize for the lack of cartoons in this post. Here's a picture of my dog's nose instead:
Raisintoast


Anyway, this past week, my moods have been pretty similar to summer weather in North Carolina. Imagine opening your curtains to a beautiful sunny morning. As the warm light hits your grinning face, you think: today, I'm gonna finish that book. Today, I'm gonna write that screenplay. Today, I'm gonna go swimming in my new string bikini 'cuz I'm comfortable with mah body, yo (disclaimer: I've never owned a string bikini). Then, in the afternoon, just as you're about to head for the pool so the world can admire your fleshy awesomeness, the thunderstorm hits. Hail stones pelt your head as you run back inside to spend the rest of the day in your small, dark bedroom-cave staring up at the stalactites of disenchantment.

I figured my emotional state had something to do with loneliness. My hometown, despite being fairly close to several metropolitan areas, is becoming like one of those remote mountain villages, full of youngsters who dream of escaping to the "big city." Thus, most of my friends have moved away. Fortunately though, one of my best friends still lives nearby, and last Saturday the two of us went to visit a another friend from high school at the cafe where she worked. The place was a cozy wooden hideaway, complete with arm chairs and shelves full of homemade muffins and natural peanut butter. The three of us talked over coffee and cinnamon rolls for a good two hours, and at one point the shop handyman paid us a visit. He was a soft-spoken, forty-something Mexican guy with a motorcycle helmet and many tattoos (he seemed especially proud of "La Virgen" on his chest). He told us stories of fights in Mexico, including one involving a man called El Ruso (the Russian), which left a few scars on his hand. After he left, my friends and I spent the rest of the afternoon discussing everything from life goals to jobs to romantic misadventures. The visit didn't completely cure my mood swings, but I felt a lot better when I got home.

The afternoon made me realize the value of face-to-face communication, something that's easily forgotten in today's social media-crazed world. There's something really comforting about actually sitting down with someone and hearing them tell a story, rather than instant messaging them. I think it's being able to see the human behind the words, to look into someone's eyes instead of a computer screen. You also experience the  added color of the person's speech and mannerisms that gets lost in type. Sometimes I wonder if things like Facebook are actually hurting our ability to make new friends, in a way. The Internet isn't always the best place to strike up a conversation with a stranger, and we're so connected to our group of close friends all the time that it feels less and less necessary to expand our socialization out in the world. Instead, we tend to stay somewhat closed off, missing everything around us while we text or tweet on our phones. I know because I'm guilty of this myself.

That about wraps up my speech for tonight. Tune in Friday to see me discuss human nature and potato salad.



 

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Post-Grad Blues

So, I'm writing a blog post while Dog with a Blog is on the Disney channel (please don't ask for a synopsis of this show...I beg you), while my own dog snores next to me. The inter-connectedness of life fascinates me sometimes.

Anyway, so you've just graduated from college. Congratulations. You're free from the shackles of class schedules, roommates who barf on your carpet (hopefully), and defending your argument that Hamlet WAS in love with his mother. The world is your oyster, right?
Wrong. You shake the chancellor's hand, leave the stage, and THUD. You fall right into a pit of depression, lethargy, and unemployment. Well, okay, maybe this didn't happen to you, but it happened to me all right. A couple weeks ago, I graduated from UNC-Wilmington with a BA in Film Studies and a BFA in Creative Writing. On my way back home, I had dreams of world conquest, Hollywood glory, and being the literary voice of a generation. But for the past ten days or so, all I've wanted to do is sit around and eat Magnum bars. It could be the fact that the weather's been crappy. It could be that my head isn't screwed on just right. But I think that the most likely reason of all is my bad luck with job hunting. I finally landed a deli job at Harris Teeter this afternoon, but this was after I applied to about 30 jobs, and it was the only offer I got, despite having two college degrees.

However, the only thing sadder than looking for minimum-wage work after your education dumps debt on your head like a pooping seagull, is filling out the "assessments" or "questionaires" that often come with such job applications. These surveys, supposedly designed to give companies a glimpse of your work style and personality, really just spit on the applicant's dignity instead. One question I got was "I am always happy. Strongly agree, agree, neutral, disagree, or strongly disagree?" No one is always happy. I'm sorry, but I refuse to deny the complexity of human emotions for a cashier job at Panera Bread. Here's another statement I had to agree or disagree with: "People are generally good." Seriously? You expect me to know the answer to a question that's haunted philosophers for centuries in order to work at Schlotzky's Deli? I wonder how an actual philosopher would handle that kind of job...
Well it seems I've ranted myself into sleepiness, so I'm about to turn in for the night. But if there's one thing I'm taking away from this whole experience of new adulthood, it's that nothing in life will EVER be served to you on an imported cheese platter. If you want a job, apply for everything. If you want to be the literary voice of a generation, never stop writing. And finally, if you ever want to conquer the world, never stop pillaging, no matter how many times people tell you that pillaging is wrong.

Friday, May 24, 2013

Considerable Setbacks: Reloaded (Now with Cartoons!)

Just when you thought it was safe to go back on the Internet...Laura's incessant rambling returns in Considerable Setbacks 2: 2 Fast, 2 Laura. And this time, it's illustrated!

So yeah, after a long hiatus, I've resurrected my blog with a new design. It's not completely done yet (still waiting for better Internet so I can upload the actual background picture), but it's getting there. Why did I take so long to write again, you ask? Allow me to visualize:

 That's pretty much what was happening in my mind every day last semester. Oh yeah, this notebook doodle brings up some more exciting news: to force myself back into frequent drawing (and make this blog a little more visual), Considerable Setbacks will now feature cartoons. Hopefully they'll get better with practice, but for now, please excuse my lack of finesse/training/clear artistic vision. Personally, I view them as "refreshingly simplistic."

Tomorrow I'll have my first full-length post up, along with a cartoon featuring everyone's favorite philosopher, Plato. After that, I plan to post at least once every Friday, so don't touch that dial, folks!